Ava is on the "this" & "that" kick lately. Here is a typical conversation example:
Ava carrying an object saying "this...this....this"
Me: What's this, Ava?
Ava: That
Me: What's that?
Ava: This
Me: What's this, Ava?
Ava: That
Me: What's that?
Ava: This
Me: So that is this and that?
Ava: ya
ok then...
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You should hear her not so ferocious lion roar---it is too cute :)
Saturday, January 31, 2009
this & that
Thursday, January 29, 2009
1st drop off
We had our 1st toddler drop off today! I'm happy to report that it went very well! Ava was the first one there at 7:30 and a little hesitant to go in the room but she helped me put away her things. We had to go over to another room for drop off and she walked right in and sat down at the table for breakfast. One of her other friends came in and joined her at the table and she gave me a kiss and waved goodbye. I was so glad she did so well!
A few hours later she had Big Room time [the large gross motor room] and I got to watch her play with her friends for a bit. She was so excited to see me but threw a huge fit when I left. She's only cried a few times when I've left her but never this bad---this was arching the back and huge tears crying. I felt awful. I tell parents all the time how to handle separation anxiety and I know what to do but it's so much harder when it is your child. I just gave her a kiss, told her I loved her and I'd see her later and walked away and her teachers comforted her. She was fine after a few minutes and had a fabulous rest of the day.
Later in the day Ava had a temperature so I headed to her class to give her some tylenol. I love watching her play and interact with the big kids. She saw me and ran over and gave me a big hug and happily took the tylenol [she loves that stuff]. The greatest part was she didn't even cry when I left---she kept playing with her friends and her teachers told me she was totally fine---phew!
So that was our 1st full day of toddlers! Ava had a blast and gave her teacher a hug when she left today. It's so great seeing her form relationships with her caregivers and her friends.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
♥ wednesday ♥
It seems like we've had awful weather the past few Wednesdays. I'm so incredibly sick of the snow. We got a call from Steven this morning that he was in a car accident. A car was coming down the hill and couldn't stop. Steven saw the car but couldn't stop either. He was hit and spun across the road. I can't even tell you how thankful I am that no cars were coming the other way. He's fine just a tad shaken [I would be too!] So that was a great way to start off the day. Needless to say I wasn't taking Ava out today. Not that she seemed to mind---she was up at 7:30am then slept from 9-1pm, ate lunch, did a project and asked to go lay down again. Quite the life!
We did a quick little Valentine project that Ava really enjoyed. I had gotten a pack of 3 foam hearts with a bunch of little heart stickers. She loved sticking and unsticking the stickers on the hearts. She was mad at first that the stickers were sticking but soon got the hang of it and loved it.
so hip

Tuesday, January 27, 2009
my morning
Today was supposed to be Ava's big toddler dropoff. She was so exhausted from toddlers that she slept from 7pm to 730 am which meant breakfast was a little rushed for her this morning. So we are about 10 minutes from school when I hear the oh-so-pleasant noise of her throwing up in the backseat. Ugh. I turn around and she has her breakfast sitting all on the straps and on her just washed pea coat [of course]. I'm frantically trying to get wipes which are, of course, frozen in the car. I pull one out and put the pack on the heater to warm up. I'm trying to clean as much as I can at the stop light and get a good portion. Thankfully I had a plastic bag in the car that I can throw everything in. Of course the road we are on has no place to pull off and there is a ton of traffic and I stupidly leave the wipe on her coat. So this makes Ava a little ticked and she starts flinging the wipe which flings the puke on to the seat. I start shrieking "don't fling the puke!" I can't even imagine what the people behind us were thinking.
I somehow manage to clean her up and my hands before we get to work. We pull in to the parking lot and I open her door and she throws up again and again and again. So her coat is covered in puke and I have to pick her up which gets me covered [thankfully I had my ski jacket on so it wiped up quick]. Did I mention it is only 8:30? I run in to clean her off and grab a sweatshirt of mine for her to wear as a coat and we head home so I can drop her off with my parents and then I go back to work. It was quite the morning!
Of course, Ava is totally fine at my parents'. She's eating and playing and in the greatest mood. I'm thinking she is a pretty damn good faker :) I really just think I put her in the car too quickly after breakfast. Lesson learned, Ava, lesson learned.
But now I can look back and laugh. You'll never survive parenthood if you don't have a good sense of humor! Hope everyone else had a good day :)
Monday, January 26, 2009
TODDLERS!
So our little baby is officially in toddlers now! I simply have no idea how the past 15 months have flown by. I totally was in tears last night thinking of her going to toddlers---Steven was not quite as sad.
Ava headed over to the toddler room around 9 w. her teacher. She was so cute carrying her lunch box and toddling over to the door. As soon as she got to the door she just looked at her teacher like "no thanks". Ms Claudia showed her the sign on the door welcoming Ava and got her settled before leaving her. Ava was a little sad in the morning but was fine once snack came around [no surprise there!]. In her room she's the youngest by 3 months and the oldest ones are about 2 1/2 so there in a good age range.They said she was such a ham when they brought out the camera---I can't imagine why :) I peeked in on my break and when Ava saw me she stuck out her lower lip like she was going to cry and came running over. When I left, she waved and blew me a kiss and, thankfully, no tears! She didn't like the other girls yelling & would run to her teachers for comfort. She kept running over to her old room when she was in the big room to see her teachers. She gave them hugs and then would go back and play. We made sure to stop by on our way out so she could give her teachers hugs and kisses. Another teacher told me how she was sitting next to an older child at lunch and that child had a cup to drink out of. Little Ms Nosy stuck her hand right in the cup to see what was in there :) Oh bubbs.
She was so excited when I came to pick her up---she couldn't get out of her chair fast enough. I reminded her to throw her plate away and she ran to the trash and over to grab her coat.Poor Ava was so exhausted and went to bed @ 715 tonight! I'm so glad she had a wonderful day. They give them 2 weeks to transition but she went in one day so we'll be trying drop off tomorrow morning in toddlers. Wish us luck!
FIFTEEN {monthly update}
Welcome to Toddlerhood [officially!] Ava is officially a toddler according to our state standards although she's been acting like one for quite a while :) I'm not sure why these months keep flying by but I don't like it. Every month she is doing more and more and I feel like I can't slow down fast enough to take it all in! On to the updates:
Just in the past month Ava's self-help skills have improved in so many ways. When she is ready to eat she'll go get her plate and bring it to you. She'll also grab her bib and try to get it on and get a spoon too. It's so cute. She knows where everything is kept so when you open the fridge she'll grab a yogurt, go get a bowl, spoon and bib and bring it to you. When she is done she throws the container away and puts the bowl and spoon into the dishwasher after we open it. It's so great to see how proud she is of herself! We let her help load and unload the dishwasher too [once we take the knives out] but we have to watch her because she's thrown away a plate or two before. It's amazing to watch her take out the plates and put them on her shelf. Of course it's all messy but they are all on her shelf and balanced so we can't ask for much more! Once we are home Ava helps take off her hat and coat and puts them away in her room. She very carefully puts them on her rocking chair and leaves it there until we go out again. I'm so thankful she likes to clean up!
Of course we are at that age where Ava likes to test her boundaries. We don't allow her to stand on the couch or her anywhere chair because 1. it isn't safe and 2. it's rude. Ava knows this and will usually sit after we remind her. But then she gets that glimmer in her eye. And as she is looking at us she'll stand on the couch. We give her three chances before we take her off the couch completely. She just grins as you come over to help her and stands right back up when we walk away. She's learning and knows it's a battle she just won't win. My favorite is when she pushes herself up so she's leaning on the arm of her anywhere chair. She isn't standing but she isn't sitting either so she just looks at you with this big grin. Trouble!
Munchy has gotten great at following 2 step directions which is a lot for a little brain to follow! We have to repeat them a few times as with all toddlers at this age but she does great remembering them and following them. At our school rooms with infants are shoeless so when we walk out of Ava's room together she stops me and picks up my shoes and hands them to me. She loves being such a helper and is so into following her routine. I love watching her process what should come next. One of Ava's favorite things to do is pick out her socks every morning. I open the drawer and she gets so excited and points to which one she wants. Then she tries getting them on herself and hands them to me. As I'm putting them on she is already pointing to the shoes she wants to wear. She's a pushy little thing! She knows if the gate isn't up and will point to it to let you know it's not on. She also tries to re-latch the cabinets if the safety lock is off. Maybe she'll be a future hall monitor? :)
Ava's receptive and expressive language skills are great. I'm always blown away by what she understands and follows. Ava is very into her routines and knows what is supposed to happen next. She won't let you forget a thing! At school they wash their hands before eating. Ava knows that once they clean off the table and pull out the chairs it is time to eat so she'll wait by the sink with her arms up to wash them. She also has a nice little habit of bringing us a diaper and a wipe when she needs to be changed---not that we need to be told! Ava loves handing out the mail to people. She waits anxiously by the mail pile to find out what piece goes to what person. She does great identifying everyone in her extended family. Ava can identify a lot of her body parts and can identify them on us and her dolls too. When she wants to watch Elmo, she takes the clicker and points it to the tv. She also loves chatting on the phone and pushing the buttons and holding the phone up to her ear. She holds it up backwards which is just too cute. She loves her tubby time and as soon as I mention it she runs into the bathroom and grabs her bath wash. We added in a small toddler pillow to Ava's crib. She was always sleeping on her dolls or stuffed animals so we figured a pillow would be a little more comfortable.
Ava still loves music and dancing. She knows the dances to If You're Happy..., spins around for the Hokey Pokey and gets her spiders out for the Itsy Bitsy Spider. I love watching her dance and participate more in finger plays. She's gotten really good at puzzles and loves filling and dumping containers. She does great with her stacking cups but loves knocking them over even more. Of course, she still adores her baby dolls. She is always feeding them and burping them. Ava also shakes your hand when you say "nice to meet you". She learned something from her elmo video! :) Ava does really well with her fork and spoon. The fork is a little trickier at times but she is always so determined. Three of her molars have popped through [well the corner parts] She's done really well with the molars---a lot better than I thought she would. Those things hurt! She is just so fantastic and I can't believe how much she has changed in just one month!

Sunday, January 25, 2009
weekend happenings
What a busy weekend! This Friday was the first time I had worked in a while because of the holidays and being sick so Steven was flying solo. He did such a fantastic job---I have to admit I was very impressed! He had a full day of running errands, cleaning, doing the bjs shopping and, of course, sledding! Ava had a fantastic day and wore dada out :)
Sunday, we had a yummy breakfast and I finished working on stuff for my M. Ed class. Before lunch Ava , nana and I went to check out a new kids gym that just opened up in our town. It's super cute and they have Wednesday classes for Ava. She had such a great time running around and trying different things out. She loved the row boat, which she'll see tomorrow in toddlers, and kept wanted to get in that. It was cute watching her watch all the big kids running around. After lunch, Ava was exhausted and took a nice long nap while Steven & I watching Gran Torino and may have taken a little nap ourselves :) After we ran some errands & visited grandma & grandpa and got Ava all ready for her big day in toddlers tomorrow!
up high! going down the slide
Have a fantastic week!
Friday, January 23, 2009
{photo story friday} milk coma

Wednesday, January 21, 2009
15 month appointment
We had Ava's 15 month appointment today & boy there is no fooling her at the drs any more! She unfortunately discovered that the doctor's office has toys. Germ infested toys. Thankfully we didn't have to wait long so she didn't touch much. As soon as the nurse came to get her, Ava waved and headed towards the door to leave. She totally gets what the nurses do now. She freaked for the poor nurse---she was so sweet and Ava wanted nothing to do with her. She was totally fine with the doctor but hated the nurse. She told me she isn't offended---kids start "getting it" around this age and the nurse is the "bad guy".
Ava is doing great! She's a tall, chunky thing---24lbs 12oz [85%] and 32inches [95%]. I guessed 25lbs with the nurse so only a few oz off. The dr is really happy with Ava's receptive & expressive language and her motor skills. Ava totally loves showing off for him & chiming in when we're talking about her. The dr just laughs at her---she's quite the ham. She did have to get 2 shots---the MMR and Chickenpox vaccines. She was pissed. They do them in the arms now and the MMR one stings so she was pretty upset for a while. Through her big tears she waved bye to the nurse and signed thank you. At least she is polite! Once she got to the waiting room she was fine and fell asleep in the car on the way home and is currently on nap #2 for the day.
After Ava's appointment, nana took her home so I could go to my appointment and do some errands. I met Steven for a lunch date---it's so nice having a "just adults" lunch every one in a while! I dropped Steven back off at work and checked out the new Carter's store outside of his building. That was dangerous :) It was the biggest Carter's I've been to and they had sooo much stuff! I got Ava some adorable capris which she carried around at home and even held them up to her---such a riot.
After Carter's I ran over to the Paper Store to return a few Vera items I had gotten as gifts. I ended up having more than enough for the new baby bag :) It's all redesigned and I love it! Don't get me wrong---I love my Coach one but I needed something fun for spring.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
history
I'll be the first to admit it is a scary world out there. I can't imagine what Ava will face growing up. I feel like there can be so much "bad" in the world. I try not to show Ava the bad. I want her to see the beauty in everything---which children tend to do in an amazingly innocent way. For once I felt like I could breathe a mini sigh of relief that Ava experienced this history-making day and that she was shown her dreams really could come true. And really, as parents, all we want is for our children to have faith enough to reach for their dreams.
Ava---you were busy stuffing your adorable cheeks with lunch when Obama was sworn in. Elmo took a little break so you could see history. love you munchy ♥
Monday, January 19, 2009
[updated]
Phew! I think we're all updated---here are the updated posts [not in order]:
more snow!







